Love has been and always has been a tough subject, even more so when you are trying to find out if your love for someone is mutual. It will be an ongoing struggle for most people to understand what love is. However with a few simple steps it can be much easier to gauge if your boyfriend really loves you.
Don't expect a guy to remember every detail or date, it normally won't happen. Guys typically don't try to remember everything and this is normally a poor way to judge a man's love. However, when you do have a major anniversary, expect something thoughtful. While you shouldn't always expect something expensive, if he is very proud of the present or gift or it is something that holds a lot of meaning then it is probably a real love thing.
The second way to see if its true love is if the communication and desire to be with you is there. Now, normally this peaks early in the relationship or when something good is going on. If, over time, he still strives to spend time with you, then it is probably real love.
The last way to tell if he truly loves you is by seeing how much he values you and your time. If he is telling his friends how amazing you are, then most likely, he is telling them the truth. Guys typically won't lie about how much they like a girl. Usually a girl won't ever get this chance to hear it directly, but listening for keywords in conversations can yield the results you are looking for.
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